How We Stayed Married 25 Years Without Constant Fighting | You're Doing It Wrong Podcast
25 Years. No Fights?
Here’s the Truth…

Almost 25 years of marriage — and yes, we’ve done a lot wrong.
In this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes pull back the curtain on what it really takes to make a relationship last through the good, the bad, and the “what were we thinking” moments.

We talk about:

How disagreements have evolved over the years

Communication styles that work (and the ones that don’t)

Parenting differences & finding “our normal”

Why moving away from family early in marriage can help

How to be a safe place for your partner to speak honestly

Laugh-out-loud moments from our real life (yes, even furniture rearranging)

Whether you’ve been married for decades or you’re just starting out, these stories and tips will help you connect, communicate, and keep laughing together.

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Keywords: marriage advice, relationship communication, long term marriage tips, how to avoid fights, relationship humor, podcast marriage, marriage podcast, communication in marriage, relationship growth, 25 years married

Chapters:
00:00 Intro – 25 years (almost!) of marriage
02:10 Pulling back the curtain on the good, bad & funny
05:15 Rearranging furniture – who really wanted it?
08:50 Why we’re grateful for our listeners & comments
13:20 What happens when we don’t agree
16:40 How disagreements looked in our early years
22:00 Personality types & how they play out in marriage
28:35 Parenting differences & “our normal”
34:15 Why moving away from family can help early marriage
38:50 Our no-secrets approach to trust & transparency
45:00 Processing differently – quick vs. slow communicators
50:10 Why tone matters more than you think
54:20 Asking “How are you?” and meaning it
58:00 Wrapping up: be a safe place for your spouse
1:02:30 Furniture rearranging reveal – who did it?
1:05:00 Final thoughts & next week’s guest reveal

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