What does unity in marriage and family actually look like—especially when you're raising six kids, navigating differences, and becoming grandparents?

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of You're Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes pull back the curtain on 25 years of marriage. They talk about:

💬 What it was like watching their daughter become a mom

🍰 The “cake” analogy for unity (yes, cake!)

👶 How grandparenting changed their view of love

❤️ The emotional truth of parenting, apologizing, and growing through hard moments

💡 What unity is (and what it definitely isn’t)

🎯 Why shared purpose matters more than perfect agreement

You’ll laugh, cry, and nod along as they share real stories, vulnerable insights, and a few surprise confessions.

👣 Whether you're dating, parenting, or grandparenting—this one’s for you.

🧁 And don’t forget: be a cake.

⏰ Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome & intro: We’re live!

01:00 – Why we’re talking about unity today

05:45 – Becoming grandparents: the unexpected shift

12:40 – How love evolves (and deepens) through generations

18:22 – Unity ≠ agreement: what it really means in relationships

22:30 – The “cake” metaphor for unity and diversity

28:18 – Parenting with different backgrounds & shared purpose

36:10 – What’s surprisingly wonderful about having kids

41:40 – The hardest part of parenting (and how we handled it)

47:55 – Real advice for couples & families who want to stay connected

51:30 – Final thoughts: love, God, and being on the same team

54:00 – Wrap-up: You’re doing it wrong—and we love it.

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Marriage podcast, family relationships, parenting tips, unity in marriage, raising kids, grandparenting, LDS podcast, couples therapy, communication in marriage, Christian marriage podcast, You're Doing It Wrong podcast, Sarah and Wes, funny parenting stories, marriage growth, real marriage advice 

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